His Needs, Her Needs: Building an Affair-Proof Marriage
- ISBN13: 9780800717889
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Product Description
Marriage works only when each spouse takes the time to consider the other’s needs and strives to meet them. In His Needs, Her Needs, Willard Harley identifies the ten most vital needs of men and women and shows husbands and wives how to satisfy those needs in their spouses. He provides guidance for becoming irresistible to your spouse and for loving more creatively and sensitively, thereby eliminating the problems that often lead to extramarital affairs. The revised anniversary edition of His Needs, Her Needs is a celebration of how the book has helped thousands of couples revitalize their marriages during the last fifteen years. This best-seller identifies the causes of marital difficulties and instructs couples on how to prevent them, guiding them to build a relationship that sustains romance and increases intimacy. With today’s soaring divorce rate and prevalence of affairs, Harley’s insights are needed more than ever before. An unabridged recording of His Needs, Her Needs, the 15th anniversary edition, is now available as an audio book.
His Needs, Her Needs: Building an Affair-Proof Marriage
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This “expertise” book was given to us as a gift - and we were offended (though highly amused) from even reading the table of contents.
This highly sexist book can really only be swallowed if you read it like we did - in small portions and reversing the genders in his narrow-minded anecdotes. i.e. “Nancy” in “He Needs an Attractive and Good Looking Wife” becomes “Frank,” a middle-aged, overweight man who diets and buys “appropriate make-up” to get himself a wife. And of course, once he gets a wife, he gains all the weight back, quits his job and eats all day. And the wife, who thought she was getting a good-looking husband, wants a divorce. Or is justified in cheating on him.
What ever happened to simple mutual respect? Don’t waste your money or the paper! I recycled mine.
Rating: 1 / 5
His Needs, Her Needs: Building an Affair-Proof Marriage
Harley only cares about what men want.Men getting satisfied,
men dominating the marriage.Women are nothing more than
sex objects,submissive knitt witts.The book would make our
Lord very sad.zero stars!
Rating: 1 / 5
His Needs, Her Needs: Building an Affair-Proof Marriage
A woman is nothing but an object,nothing more than something
for the man to enjoy.He says women are interested in emotional
security and not much else.Sex is placed at the bottom of the
list for women.It’s not good advice but an array of old
sterotypes we still believe to this day in the 21st century!
Marriage is a trade off,the man buys the woman with gifts and
a booming bank account,the woman gets the man to notice her by
being his slave and sex object.Sadly many people have fallen
prey to this thinking within some churches.The lord and master
vs servant and slave.
Rating: 1 / 5
His Needs, Her Needs: Building an Affair-Proof Marriage
I read this book some months ago.I was so shocked by its
obvious sexism ,I couldn’t find the words to say what
dislike I have for its writer.Unfortunately this mindset is
common in the evangelical world.The woman has to be a perfect
image of beauty or her worth as a person is less.He condones
plastic surgery because he states”men are visual” and if I
hear that one more time,,I’m going to get sick!Women are
visual too but no one wants us to think that because it might
take away controll from the patriarchial far right,,,because it
leaves one to ponder maybe a woman IS a full human being and
not just a sex object for an arrogant mindless evangelical
crusading moron.Need I say more??
Rating: 1 / 5
His Needs, Her Needs: Building an Affair-Proof Marriage
Demeaning and dehumanizing to women
ABUSER’S HANDBOOK ….”How to make your wife believe God wants her to submit to abuse.”
…might be a better title.
Rating: 1 / 5
His Needs, Her Needs: Building an Affair-Proof Marriage